Last Updated on December 11, 2024 by Kelly
With a real penis, going soft is usually a big disappointment. However, soft dildos can be fun for a few reasons.
Some people like soft dildos because of their flexibility, and others like the texture. Plus, you can bend soft dildos in many ways!
But which soft dildos are the best? If you’re planning on buying one, you may not know which ones will work best for you.
You may also not know what features you should look for in soft dildos.
I decided to do a little digging to find some dildos that may be soft but go hard if you get my drift. So, let’s look at soft dildos!
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What Are The Benefits Of Soft Dildos?
Soft dildos have their firmness turned down to zero. They are squishy, flexible, and can feel so good.
If you prefer your dildos firm, you may wonder why someone would want them soft. Let’s explain why soft dildos are amazing.
They’re Gentle
Some women and AFABs may have sensitive vaginas, and a firm dildo can feel uncomfortable.
Even if you use a bunch of lube, and go small, the experience can be painful.
As a reminder, penetration should never be painful. Therefore, you may want to start soft for your comfort.
You Like Flexibility
Soft dildos are a lot more flexible than their firm counterparts. It’s much easier to bend it without breaking it.
You may reach those areas that you couldn’t before when you use a soft dildo. You may even be able to share it with a partner much easier.
You Like Variety
Some may enjoy firm dildos, but they like mixing it up. Having a soft dildo on hand can be great for those moments. I’m a firm (no pun intended) believer in all dildos being beautiful.
They’re Just Fun to Squeeze
Okay, this reason may not be the best, but hear me out. Sometimes, you need a little stress ball or something to latch onto during sex.
A soft dildo may come in handy during this time!
7 Best Soft Dildos
Now, let me show you seven dildos that are soft to the touch.
1. Lovehoney Super Soft Silicone Galaxy Dildo 7 Inch – Best Overall
A lot of thought went into the number-one choice on this list. Okay, I wasn’t deep in thought like the Thinker, but I asked myself some questions to help me determine the best one.
The best dildo should be a crowd-pleaser. It shouldn’t be too expensive, but not cheap. Its length should satisfy most people.
It should have all the basic features you would expect. Of course, I also needed a dildo with super softness.
This dildo from Lovehoney checks all those boxes. The dildo is made from super soft silicone, making it the perfect one to start with.
Its price should fit most budgets. Its softness makes it flexible, but it will stay still as you insert it into you. At six insertable inches, the dildo should satisfy most holes.
The dildo also has a flared base, meaning you can enjoy it if you have a strap-on. Just be sure that you use an O-ring with a 1.75-inch diameter.
Finally, the dildo just looks pretty. As you can see from its name, it has a galaxy design.
You may even find yourself looking at it and pondering the vastness of the cosmos. Okay, maybe you won’t go that far, but it’s still amazing to look at.
Overall, this dildo is a real crowd-pleaser. If you need a soft dildo and aren’t picky, this may be a great first choice.
Pros
- Super soft.
- Beautiful design.
- Great for strap-on play.
Cons
- None, really.
2. Curve Super Soft – Best G-Spot Dildo
If you have a vagina, you may want a dildo that’s curved to reach your G-spot. Hitting that G-spot can feel oh-so-satisfying!
With that said, getting a soft dildo for your G-spot can be challenging. You want something that will hit your most delicate area and also not bend too much.
This dildo is the perfect match. It’s perfectly curved, with a ridged texture to it.
The ridges will make your most delicate areas feel so good, and it’s curved perfectly to reach your G-spot.
Also, it does come with a flat base, meaning this dildo is also great for harness play. With 5.75 insertable inches, this dildo should be a crowd-pleaser.
Pros
- Super soft.
- Perfectly curved to reach your most delicate areas.
- Great for strap-on play.
Cons
- Nothing, really.
3. Marshmallow Super Soft Silicone Sweets Twisty Dildo – Softest Dildo
If Willy Wonka ever got into the sex toy business, this would probably be something he’d make!
This dildo resembles a twisty piece of candy, adding some amazing textures to it. The dildo also lives up to its “marshmallow” name, being as soft as a marshmallow you pull out to make s’mores with.
At 7.75 insertable inches, it’s also a big toy without getting too intimidating.
With its softness and its size, it’s possible to share this piece of candy with someone else, or get a little greedy and have it all to yourself.
I suppose if I had a complaint, the dildo is a little pricey. But this price is due to the materials. It consists of some of the softest silicone around, giving you the best experience.
Pros
- Soft.
- Colorful.
- Has an incredible texture.
Cons
- It’s pricey.
4. Coloursoft 8-inch – The Softest Big Dildo
The next dildo looks like what happens when Thanos whips it out. This big, purple dildo has a realistic design, with many veins and bumps on it.
While a realistic dildo can be great, this is not why I put this dildo on the list. I put it on the list because it’s a big boy.
The dildo has 7.25 insertable inches. Now, this may not seem too impressive considering the last dildo on this list was a little longer.
However, the dildo is also girthy. It’s 1.95 inches wide, making you feel full. For reference, this is almost a soda can width.
As for its softness, it’s quite soft, but it does have a bit of firmness to it. This firmness works well when you’re trying to get the dildo into your partner.
Forgot to mention that yes, this dildo also includes a suction cup base for silicone play.
Overall, this is a monster of a dildo that’s not too shabby in price.
I’d highly recommend it if you’re looking for some fun! The only con is that true-size kings and queens may scoff at this.
But for the rest of us, the size is good enough.
Pros
- Great size.
- Amazing for harness play.
- Affordable.
Cons
- Some people may want something bigger.
5. The Snake Soft – Best Super Long Soft Dildo
The beauty of soft dildos is that they bend quite easily. Because of this fact, it’s easier to go super deep and explore deep in someone’s body.
The description of this page says the dildo is for “Deep cave explorers.” I admit, I chuckled. Yes, the Snake Soft is 18 inches long, with a diameter of 1.5 inches.
It has ridges at the bottom and a flat base that ensures the dildo won’t get lost during its expedition.
While big, it’s also not too expensive for the price. However, this dildo is only recommended for the most experienced anal lovers.
Newcomers or casual enjoyers may think that this dildo is too big for them, and they’re right.
But if you think you can take on this snake, you can try it. Just be sure that you use plenty of lube!
Pros
- Super long.
- Not too expensive.
- Very bendable.
Cons
- Only for experienced users.
6. Lovehoney Sweet Swirl – Best Budget Soft Dildo
These dildos are relatively inexpensive except for a couple on this list. But what if you don’t have much money to spend?
Then I would recommend this dildo by Lovehoney. Currently, it’s going for a very cheap price!
Like the marshmallow dildo, this one also has a theme of candy to it. Its “sweet swirl” consists of swirling textures that will make your entire inside feel like it’s died and gone to heaven.
It’s also a fairly large dildo, with 7.5 inches. Of course, the dildo also includes a flared base for some harness fun.
Overall, it’s a great little-budget dildo. With that said, some reviewers say it’s too firm.
Despite the dildo falling on the soft spectrum, you have to remember that the dildo’s price means that you can only get so soft.
Truly super soft dildos are made from quality silicone, so you have to pay up if you want that experience.
Pros
- Affordable.
- Fun textures.
- Harness compatible.
Cons
- It’s a bit firm.
7. Je Joue Mimi Soft Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator – Best Soft Vibrator
Okay, I know this article has focused on soft dildos, but I want to give an option for those who like the vibes.
When you think of vibrators, you may think there’s not much in the soft department. You have batteries, moving parts, and other obstacles that cannot soften.
But this one is super soft due to its extra silicone layer. If you want some vibration action, you got it!
The dildo has five speeds and six patterns, giving you plenty of combinations.
The dildo only has two buttons as well, making it great for those who don’t like having too many bells and whistles.
Another benefit of this dildo? It’s waterproof! You can use it in the bath or shower without having to worry about ruining it. Waterproof also means you can clean it with ease!
The battery is also rechargeable. Rechargeable batteries mean you don’t feel disappointed when it requires AA batteries and you only have AAAs lying around the house.
Another feature?
It can fit in the palm of your hand. This makes it great for travel! But it also means it’s lacking in the insertable inches department.
With 1.5 insertable inches, the dildo does make up for this fact by having a 5-inch circumference. If you’re team girth, you may love this toy!
Overall, this is one of the softest vibrators for a price that won’t destroy your bank. I can’t recommend this one enough!
Pros
- Easy to control.
- Waterproof.
- Soft
Cons
- Not very long.
How To Choose The Right Soft Dildo For You
When choosing a dildo, here are some considerations.
Size
Do you want a dildo that is big, small, or average? Around six inches is the average in length, giving you enough satisfaction without taking things too far.
Also, you may want your dildo to be wider or shorter depending on your tolerance.
Because of their bendiness, soft dildos with length may reach areas that other dildos cannot.
Softness
Not all softness is created equal. Some dildos will be soft and squishy. Others may have a bit of firmness to them.
Usually, a dildo’s box or page can tell you, on a scale, how soft it is. This scale can give you an idea of what to expect when you open the box.
While you can’t try them out yourselves, you can get an idea of their softness by looking at this info and reading reviews.
Material
You’re limited when it comes to material options. Soft dildos aren’t going to be made from glass, metal, or other hard materials.
Usually, you’ll have silicone or materials such as jelly or PVC. And there’s only one material I can recommend out of these: silicone!
Sex toy veterans will know why already, but if you’re new here, silicone is non-porous.
Non-porous means that the materials won’t absorb bacteria. Meanwhile, porous dildos like silicone do.
This means that cleaning is much easier if you buy non-porous dildos. Non-porous dildos only require some soap and water, or a toy cleaner.
If they need a deep cleaning, you can pop these dildos in a dishwasher or boil them. Porous dildos are a different beast, as they absorb bacteria deep inside of them.
And I don’t care if you’re Mr. Clean himself; these dildos are nearly impossible to clean. No matter what you do, you may not kill all the bacteria.
And that thought will linger in the back of your head whenever you use the dildo. For a clean experience, you can put a condom on the dildo, but who wants that?
For that reason, I’m only going to recommend silicone dildos. It’s quite easy to go to the packaging or product page and see what materials it’s made from.
Choosing high-quality, soft silicone is always a good move.
Aesthetics
For some people, their decision is all about the vibes (no pun intended.) You may like something about the dildo’s color, or enjoy other design elements.
Of course, some design elements are more than just aesthetics. For example, a dildo’s texture can affect your overall experience.
Meanwhile, its shape may help you reach certain areas like your G-spot more easily.
What Are You Using it For?
Is the dildo for vaginal or anal use? Do you plan on bringing it with you, or will it stay at home?
Finally, will you use it solo, on a harness, or both? These questions can help you find a dildo right for the job.
For instance, a dildo with a flat base or suction cup can be attached to the floor or wall for hands-free fun.
These dildos can also be mounted to a harness so a partner can have fun with you!
To read more about the different types of dildos see my post here.
Budget
Finally, how much are you willing to pay? You shouldn’t go super cheap, as these dildos tend to be made from porous materials.
But there are high-quality dildos that are budget-friendly.
On the other hand, you may want to treat yourself and get a dildo that is built to last. Longer soft dildos will also cost more money due to requiring more materials.
If you find a good dildo and it’s a little out of your budget, look for competitors, or wait for a sale.
With a bit of looking, it’s possible to find a toy that fits how much money is in your wallet.
How to Use a Soft Dildo
With all this said, how do you use a soft dildo? Let’s give a brief overview of how you should use it.
- Get in an area that makes you feel comfortable. Maybe your bed, or bathtime. All of the dildos on this list should be waterproof. Also, make sure you are in the mood. If you’re not feeling it, you may end up abandoning your little session.
- Start playing with yourself a little bit to create wetness. Alternatively, finger your anus with a bit of lube. Open yourself up so that you feel ready to insert it inside of you.
- Insert the dildo inside of you. Start slow, then go deeper and increase the speed once you’re feeling it.
- Once you’re done, be sure to clean it. Silicone dildos are simple to clean (read the next session.) Once cleaned and dried, store the dildo in a carrying bag and separate it from the other toys you have.
- Also, read the manual before the use. This rule especially replies if you’re using a vibrator and need to charge it. Manuals can also give you safety and specific cleaning instructions.
- Another tip is to avoid silicone lubes. Since all the toys on this list are made from silicone, silicone lubes can damage the toys. Use water or hybrid. Hybrid lubes contain the best of both worlds, not damaging toys while also lasting longer than water.
How To Clean A Soft Dildo
You should always clean your dildo when you first receive it, and after you use it. Even though a new dildo hasn’t been used, you don’t know where it’s been!
And I don’t need to explain why you should clean it after use.
Dildos made from non-porous dildos (silicone, metal, glass, etc.) are easy to clean. Scrub the dildo with mild soap and warm water, let it air dry, then store it.
If you’re in a hurry, antibacterial toy cleaners are quick and simple. Some dildos you can pop in the dishwasher, too.
