Last Updated on September 4, 2024 by Kelly
Today, I’m pitting two more Lovense toys to see which is better. Both are G-spot vibrators designed to help you reach that big “O,” but their methods are a little different.
On one side, we have the Lovense Lush 3. This G-spot vibrator has been refined in its third generation to deliver the best orgasm possible.
On the other side, we have the Lovense Flexer.
This vibrator is new to the scene but carries an interesting gimmick. The dildo can move like it’s making a “Come hither” finger motion.
So, which is better? Let’s find out!
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Brief Overview of The Lush 3
The Lush 3 is a G-spot vibrator shaped to reach your most delicate spot. It’s the third generation of Lush toys, with several improvements over previous iterations.
The Lush 3 boasts rumblier vibrations, a more ergonomic design, and better comfort. The toy is also waterproof and fully compatible with Lovense’s Remote app.
The Lush 3 is mainly a G-spot vibrator, with no clitoral stimulation. Its idea is to focus on one thing and focus on it well, which is to its benefit.
Pros
- Rumbly vibrations
- It fits inside you perfectly
- Excellent app support
- Quiet
Cons
- Little clitoral support
Brief Overview of The Flexer
The Lovense Flexer is a clitoral vibrator with three motors. The first two are designed to hit your clitoris and G-spot.
The third is a little more unique, making the toy move in a “come hither” finger motion.” In other words, it feels like you’re getting fingered without any, well, fingers!
Despite being a great little Swiss army knife, the Flexer isn’t as powerful as some other toys.
Not to mention, some people have reported the toy to be uncomfortable. Do I think so? Let’s find out.
Pros
- Three modes to choose from
- Waterproof
- Excellent app support
Cons
- Very loud
- It doesn’t stay inside you for long.
Comparison of Features
Both the Lush 3 and the Flexer have similar features, but they’re quite different once you try them. Let’s compare.
G-spot Stimulation
Both toys are curved to hit your G-spot, but the Flexer is inferior for several reasons. First, the Lush 3 is purely a G-spot vibrator.
Meanwhile, the Flexer is a 3-in-1. While I love variety, I also acknowledge that this means the toy is a bit of a jack-of-all-trades.
In the Flexer, the shape is not as ergonomic. The vibration is only a fraction as powerful.
And the Flexer can’t stay inside you for very long without slipping out!
It took a good while for me to reach orgasm with the Flexer. Even cranked to its highest settings, the uncomfortable sensation and inconsistent stimulation made it difficult.
I had to enter my zone, think lewd thoughts, and eventually the orgasm came. The “come hither” motion, while fun, was also very uncomfortable after a while.
Meanwhile, the Lush 3 was always Reliable. I managed to get an orgasm quickly because the stimulation was strong and it felt comfortable. You know which one I’m picking.
Winner: Lush 3
Noise Levels
With any vibrator, the noise levels are always important. The appeal of Lovense toys is that one can discreetly fit inside of you in public.
Meanwhile, the person beside you, or even in another country, can control the toy with their phone. If the toy is loud, people will know.
If it’s whisper quiet, this unlocks the door to all sorts of pervy experiences. So, which is better?
Again, the Flexer suffers from having too much to show. The Lush 3 has a single motor, which they’ve refined twice now. As a result, the motor is quiet.
You can wear the Lush 3 out in public, and its noise levels are easy to conceal.
But because the Flexer is a new product, and it has three motors to work with, they all are loud. Even on its lowest settings, you will hear it.
I don’t dare to go outside with my boyfriend wearing this thing. It’s in our bedroom and our bedroom alone. And even then, I almost worry the neighbors will hear it!
And I can’t imagine living with a nosy roommate or family. Even when they’re sound asleep, I’d be too worried to fire up the Flexer without waking one of them up!
Winner: Lush 3
Strength of Vibrations
How powerful are those vibes? Some vibrators can hit you with a powerful rumble, while others are weaker. So, which is better?
It’s the same deal here. Because the Flexer has three weaker motors instead of one strong motor, the vibrations aren’t as good.
Even the highest settings had me thinking, “That’s it?” and I’m not a picky girl. I almost feel bad for the Flexer, getting walloped like this.
Meanwhile, the Lush 3 had some powerful vibrations! I almost felt an earthquake happen when I tried to test it on its max settings.
Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration, but not by much!
Winner: Lush 3
Comfort Levels and Fit
Both are toys advertised to stay inside you as you go about your day. So, which one is better in this regard?
Well, I have some bad news for Flexer fans: Flexer keeps getting beat! The Lush 3 has had three generations to figure out how to get the best fit inside you while being comfortable.
Meanwhile, the Flexer kept popping out of me. And while it felt fine at first, this toy starts to feel a little uncomfortable.
Something about its shape just did not agree with my body. While everyone’s a little different down there, the majority seem to agree.
Winner: Lush 3
Battery and Lifespan
Battery life is so important when it comes to vibrating sex toys. Think about climbing up Orgasm Mountain, and as soon as you’re about to reach the summit, you fall off due to a dead battery.
So, how do both compare?
Both use lithium-ion batteries that are USB-rechargeable. But once again, three motors mean a drain on the battery life.
Meanwhile, three generations of Lush means the R&D team knows how to make the battery last as long as possible without sacrificing quality.
The Lush 3 has up to four hours of battery life, while the Flexer has up to two. The Flexer has enough to get the job done, but you may be in trouble if you forget to charge it!
Plus, the two hours is if you’re using the lowest settings. You may find it’s only an hour if you’re getting serious!
In my experience, the battery life in the Flexer was just enough. But only just enough.
Batteries degrade over time, so I imagine in a few years, the Flexer won’t have enough juice, while the Lush 3 will still have plenty of life.
Winner: Lush 3
Short Distance App Connectivity
Both toys support the Lovense Remote app. You can connect both of them to the app, create your own patterns, download your own, or sync them to music.
This unlocks many possibilities that traditional toys just can’t bring. Limited patterns are a thing of the past when you use a Lovense toy.
In general, I found both to connect to the app quite easily. Neither toy gave me a hassle connecting to it.
Lovense has worked hard to make sure that once it’s connected to your app, it stays connected. And if there are any problems, it’s simple to reset and update.
Winner: Tie
Long Distance App Connectivity
Both toys have long-distance connectivity through the Lovense Remote app. Through the app, someone from far away can control your toy if you give them permission.
Both do it quite well since there’s a quality standard across all Lovense Bluetooth toys.
From the app, you send your partner an invitation to control whatever toy you have connected.
You can also send them photos, text, and patterns. The Lovense app also has discreet video chat.
Your partner can then control the toy’s strength, create patterns, and play around with other settings.
The app is built on consent, with the receiver easily able to approve or deny any changes. Did your LDR not work out? Simply block them!
Winner: Tie
Aesthetics and Design
How the toy looks is important. You don’t want an ugly toy taking up space on your shelf. Okay, all toys are beautiful you say?
Well, you don’t want a poorly designed toy that doesn’t fit in your hand. So, how do both compare?
Both are pink G-spot toys, but the Lush 3 is better aesthetically. Its long tail means the toy can venture inside you without getting stuck.
The Lush 3’s head also has a better shape to reach that G-spot. Meanwhile, the Flexer looks a little chunky and it’s uncomfortable.
You can definitely tell that they have not reached the ideal design that may come in future generations.
Winner: Lush 3
Waterproof
Finally, what about its waterproof capabilities? Can you use this toy in the tub without fear? Luckily, both toys are IPX7 waterproof.
This rating means the toys can be submerged in up to 1 meter of water for 30 minutes.
The waterproof capabilities also mean it’s so easy to wash them when you’re done. You just need some mild soap and water, and the toys are right as rain!
So yeah, both have an equal rating. But just to make sure, I tried both in the bath. And yes, both ran just as well underwater and had no signs of water damage.
So whichever you choose, you can rest easy if you drop it in water. Or if you want to go on some adventures.
Winner: Tie
Other Lovense Alternatives
Do you want to see what other toys Lovense has to offer in the G-spot department? Let’s look at some other toys they have.
Vulse
The Vulse is an egg vibrator that thrusts. With up to 120 strokes per minute, you can get the feeling of penetration without needing any hands!
It’s quite a nice toy, but the battery is a little low.
But it can be a great toy if you want some thrusting action but are couch locked and don’t wanna hit up your FWB.
Nora
The Nora is a rabbit vibrator, with heads for G-spot and clitoral stimulation. You can adjust and control the heads independently.
This feature gives it a little more power than other rabbit vibrators you may find at sex shops.
It’s also very ergonomically shaped, hitting those delicate spots quite well.
Dolce
The Dolce is a double-ended vibrator with one side focusing on clitoral stimulation and the other side on the g-spot.
It’s so easy to flip them over and choose what part of you gets stimulated next. However, the toy is a little small.
It’s a great toy for travel, though, or if you want to be discreet.
Also Read: Lovense Flexer Vs Lovense Ferri – Which Vibrator is Better?
The Verdict
In conclusion, the Lush 3 is the clear winner. The Lush 3 beats the Flexer in all categories, except the waterproof and long-distance capabilities, where they are tied.
But this is mainly due to the equal standards applied to all Lovense toys.
Don’t get me wrong; the Flexer is a fun experiment, and I did get some O’s out of the “come hither,” but there are too many things going on at once.
Meanwhile, the Lush 3 is more focused and therefore a higher quality product. Not to mention, the Lush is in its third generation. Meanwhile, this is the first for the Flexer.
The Flexer is truly an early adopters’ toy, with many kinks that haven’t been ironed out. Maybe in the future, we’ll have a Flexer 3 that’s more ergonomic, quieter, and has a long battery.
But as it stands, the Flexer is uncomfortable at times, loud, and has only half the battery life as the Lush 3.
I’m not saying you shouldn’t buy the Flexer, but Lovense toys are quite expensive. Often, you can only choose one.
So my recommendation is to get the Lush 3 and wait on the Flexer.
