Last Updated on October 16, 2024 by Kelly
Sometimes, you just need to peg! Maybe your partner is craving it, or you just want to try it. Either way, you’ll soon discover a universal truth: harnesses are a hassle.
Those straps get tangled like spaghetti, you got the wrong O-ring, or the vacuum seal doesn’t stick.
As those old infomercials once said, “There’s got to be a better way!”
Enter the world of strapless strapons. These toys have no straps; instead, they rely on a curved opposite end that goes directly inside you.
This way, not only do you not have to deal with straps, but you get plenty of pleasure as well. Everyone wins!
The Lovense Lapis is Lovense’s take on a strapless strap-on. Does it deliver? Or does it disappoint? I’m here to find out.
I’ll explain the Lovense Lapis, its benefits, and whether it’s a good product.
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What is The Lovense Lapis?
The Lovense Lapis is a double-sided strapless strap-on. The wearable side is easily adjustable to ensure maximum comfort.
Like most Lovense toys, you can control its vibrations via the Lovense Remote App. The toy has three motors, which you can control separately.
For example, you can make the motor that goes inside you more powerful than the one going inside your partner.
What Are the Main Features of the Lovense Lapis?
If you order the Lovense Lapis, what are you going to get? Let’s look at its features.
G-Spot Stimulation on the Giver’s End
The Lovense Lapis has a G-spot bulb that you insert inside. The motor in the bulb lets you control the intensity, letting you reach orgasm fast or via a slow buildup.
In addition, the bulb includes some ridged grooves to give you even more stimulation!
Powerful Shaft
The dildo part of the Lapis is also great. It comes with a ribbed shaft to provide more stimulation and evenly distribute vibrations.
The tip is sleek and great for P or G-spot stimulation. The shaft is about 5.5 insertable inches, which should suit most people.
3 Motors
The Lovense Lapis has three motors. The first motor is inside the wearable G-spot bulb. The second is on the base of the penis. The third motor is on the tip.
These motors can all be controlled separately, giving you and your partner the desired level of stimulation.
You can also control all three simultaneously.
Flexible Neck
The neck part of the wearable bulb is easily adjustable to conform to most shapes. This way, you can ensure maximum comfort when wearing it.
Many double-ended dildos do not have this feature, leading to some discomfort depending on a person’s position or body type.
But with the Lapis, you can easily fit the bulb inside of you according to your comfort.
Lightweight
Despite being a sizable dildo with three motors, the Lapis is lightweight. It weighs only 11 ounces.
Wearing this strap-on and using it for an extended period should not tire you out, even if you’re not fit.
Also, this weight makes it easy to bring the Lapis with you during your travels.
No worrying about it going over the baggage limit or being a burden in your purse!
Realistic Materials
The Lovense Lapis boasts body-safe silicone designed to be firm, yet soft. This material gives the Lapis a realistic feeling that most people will enjoy!
When choosing sex toys, I always stress to always use non-porous, body-safe toys. Choosing porous, unsafe materials may not be good for your body!
Waterproof
When it comes to sex toys, they can get wet. Not just from down there, but when you clean them or desire to use them in the shower.
Since the Lapis is a vibrator, you may worry that if you get it too wet, it’ will malfunction. So, is it waterproof?
The Lapis is IPX7 waterproof. You can use it in the shower, or bath, or deep clean it without worry!
This waterproof rating applies to most Lovense toys.
App Control
The Lovense Lapis can be controlled via the Lovense Remote App and shares many features that other toys have.
You can adjust the vibration levels and intensity, create patterns, and sync vibrations to music.
In addition, you can control the vibrations from a short, Bluetooth-range distance, or from a long distance.
While most partners will be using this short-distance, since it’s a two-person toy, there may be situations where you may want to control it via long-distance.
For example, maybe you’re polyamorous and want to have some control when your partner is with another person.
Great Battery Life
The Lovense Lapis has about 2.5 hours of use, depending on your settings. In addition, you can keep the toy on standby mode for five days, or 120 hours.
Charging takes 105 minutes, meaning you can juice it up relatively quickly. Like most Lovense toys, the Lapis uses magnetic USB charging.
Just clip on the charger to the two metal prongs, plug the USB part into an outlet, and it will charge.
How to Use Lovense Lapis
Using this toy is straightforward, with an image-based manual easily explaining it.
Before you use the Lapis, be sure it’s fully charged. Use the magnetic USB cord. Near the shaft’s base, you should see two metal areas that will attach to the magnetic charger.
The total time to charge the toy will depend on how charged it is from the box, but should take about an hour.
Once it’s charged, you can press and hold the on button located near the shaft. You can then tap it to control vibrations manually.
With that said, you should use the Bluetooth app. Download the Lovense Remote App, or update it if you haven’t done so already.
Then, you can add the Lapis as a new toy, provided it’s on. With the Lovense app, you can easily control the vibrations of all three motors.
Again, the toy is relatively easy to use. Most people will have no issues with it.
What’s in The Box?
If you’re ordering from Lovense, you will receive the box in a discreet plain brown box. Once you open the package, you will find the Lovense Lapis box, which includes several goodies inside.
- A user manual.
- A USB magnetic charging cable.
- Silk bag for storage.
- And, of course, the Lapis itself.
Is The Lovense Lapis Waterproof?
Yes! As mentioned in the features section, the Lovense Lapis is IPX7 waterproof. So, I figured I’d take this section to explain a little more about what IPX7 means.
Basically, different waterproof ratings explain how durable they are to water.
In the case of IPX7, you can submerge it in water up to one meter (or about three feet) for up to 30 minutes without damaging it.
So yes, this toy is fully waterproof unless you’re planning on doing it underwater for over 30 minutes.
Otherwise, it’s gonna be fine in the shower or when you are washing it!
How to Clean The Lovense Lapis
The Lovense Lapis is made from silicone, meaning it’s non-porous. Cleaning it is simple. All you need is mild soap and warm water.
You can then let the toy air dry.
Another way to clean the toy is to spray some antibacterial toy cleaner on it. Be sure to clean the Lapis before and after every use!
Even though the toy is non-porous, you still don’t want it to be covered in icky stuff!
How Do I Store Lovense Lapis?
Storing your sex toy is always important. Some people don’t know how to store them, and they get ruined, or the wrong people find them.
To store the Lapis, clean it, let it dry, and place the toy inside the included silk bag. Store in a cool, dry location.
Avoid having the toy touch other silicone toys, as this may damage it. Simple enough if you’ve had some experience with sex toys.
My Experience With The Lapis
I’ll admit something: I’ve always been a skeptic of these strapless strap-on toys. Like I love the idea. I really do.
Not having to put on a harness? Count me in! But many of these toys fail to deliver for whatever reason.
The main problem is that they don’t stay inside of me too long, or they’re uncomfortable. Like I’m having sex, not visiting a gynecologist.
But I was impressed with how well this toy fitted.
Lovense puts some extra care into its design, unlike the cheapies I’ve bought. It’s definitely worth the extra price tag for that alone.
The fact the toy is adjustable is also another win. Unless you have an exceptional body type, you should have comfort with the Lapis.
If you can’t fit the toy inside of you for whatever reason, Lovense does sell a harness. I never had to use it, but I’m just letting you know.
I also loved how each motor is separately controlled. I’ve talked numerous times about how reliable the Lapis is so I won’t bore you too much.
I will say that your hands may be busy, so be sure that you have your partner control it, or set it beforehand.
We had some intense sex with this bad boy, and changing the vibration did kinda throw us off the groove for a little bit. Not a major gripe.
So yes, I love this thing! I was impressed by how well it works, given my bad experiences.
Lovense is a company that is always experimenting, and not everything they do works. But sometimes, they knock it out of the park, and the Lapis is one of those examples.
Like I’m struggling to think of any major complaints. I guess if you are an exceptionally large person, it may not fit you, but that’s about it.
Well, I guess the lack of sizes is a major flaw.
The Lovense Lapis has about 5.5 insertable inches in the shaft, which should suit most people. But what if you like it larger, or you want something a little smaller?
For now, you cannot choose different sizes. Hopefully, the future fixes this.
The adjustability means that it works well for most body types and situations. So I highly, highly recommend the Lovense Lapis.
Lovense Lapis Alternatives
Here are some similar toys if you’re looking at the Lapis and saying “It’s not quite for me.”
Strap-On-Me Vibrating Bendable Strap-On Dildo
This toy is about the same price as the Lovense Lapis, and has some similar features. The wearable bulb is easily adjustable.
In addition, you can control the app via a remote. However, it’s a traditional, not a Bluetooth app, remote.
Therefore, this toy may be a great alternative if you don’t like those Bluetooth apps and just want a normal remote.
Another benefit is that these dildos are available in different sizes. So if you want something bigger, smaller, or something in the middle, they got you.
Overall, this is the best alternative if you want to choose different sizes, or you wish to use a traditional remote.
Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro
This toy also has an adjustable bulb and is around the same price as the Lapis. One difference is that the toy appears to be controlled via the button on it, and not through any kind of remote.
If you don’t like dealing with downloading apps and using remotes you may misplace, this one may be for you.
So overall, this is the best toy if you want something simple when it comes to control.
Orion Triple Teaser Strapless Strap-On
If you’re low on funds, you may wince at some of these toys costing over $100. This one is much cheaper, and also includes a nifty little remote to control it.
Of course, you do miss an adjustable bulb when you purchase this. However, the bulb is still ergonomically designed and should fit most people.
So this toy is the best if you want something that’s less expensive and if you want something with a manual remote.
These are several alternatives that you may wish to check out!
