Last Updated on April 16, 2025 by Kelly
It’s time to take a shower. Shampoo? Check. Soap? Check. Dildo? Wait, where’s my shower dildo? Has this happened to you?
If so, then you need to get yourself a shower dildo.
And if you haven’t wondered where your shower dildo is, then you should still get one, as they’re very fun.
They can turn a relaxing shower into one that’s exciting for your delicate parts.
So today, I’m looking at what shower dildos are and if they’re right for you.
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What is a Shower Dildo?
A shower dildo is a dildo that can be used in the shower. Showering while getting yourself off can be fun, but it’s common to worry about the water.
Shower dildos may use suction cups to stick to the shower walls or use the shower to their advantage.
What Types of Dildos Can Be Used in the Shower?
Let’s look at some dildos that make shower time more fun.
Suction Cup Dildos
These dildos have a suction cup at the base, which you can attach to the wall. As you’re showering, either by yourself or with a partner, you can grind or be penetrated by the dildo.
As long as you have a smooth, flat surface and ensure it’s dry before you turn on the shower, the suction cup should stay on the wall until you’re ready to move it.
Vibrator
Let’s add a little buzz to the sound of running water. A vibrator can make shower time so much more fun.
That said, you need to use a fully waterproof vibrator. Many dildos are fully waterproof, or at least built to withstand a jet stream, but cheaper vibes may not be waterproof at all.
Hose
This dildo can be attached to a shower hose and usually comes with its own hose attachment.
Water will shoot out of the dildo, making it sort of like a squirter.
These dildos can get you clean and get you off!
Shower Head
Some dildos double as shower heads as well.
Shower head dildos may have more bells and whistles than your traditional dildo and also look discreet enough so that your roommate thinks it’s an ordinary shower head!
How Do You Know if Your Dildo Is Waterproof?
If you order a dildo for the shower, particularly a vibrator or another battery-powered toy, you need to make sure it can withstand water!
On the box or product description page, you should see a mention of its waterproof capabilities.
Waterproofing is measured through IPX ratings.
Truly waterproof dildos use IPX7, which means they can stay submerged in up to one meter (3.2 feet) of water for up to 30 minutes.
IPX6 may also be suitable for the shower. It can withstand a jet stream of water for at least three minutes—in other words, make it quick!
Personally, I would stick with an IPX7 waterproof toy or higher.
What To Look For in a Shower Dildo
Waterproof
If your dildo isn’t waterproof, then what’s the point? Who wants to use a dildo in a shower that’s not on?
Well, some weirdo probably does, but not me. As mentioned, you’ll want a fully waterproof dildo with an IPX7 rating or higher.
Shower-Exclusive Features
Any dildo, as long as it’s waterproof, can work in a shower. However, you probably want to get a dildo that takes advantage of the fact that you’re in a different location!
Some dildos will include hose attachments or shower heads themselves.
Good Materials
You’ll want a dildo made from silicone or other non-porous, body-safe materials.
You’re cleaning yourself with this dildo, so you don’t want something that can harbor bacteria or be unsafe for your body!
Most shower dildos are made from silicone, which is safe and non-porous.
Flexibility
You’re using a dildo in the shower, so you’ll want something that can bend to reach those tricky spots.
Many shower dildos are firm yet offer some flexibility. But others may be as bendable as a snake.
Spoiler alert: I’ll be showcasing one later.
Universal Compatibility
Hose dildos should be able to screw on virtually any type of shower nozzle, or at least almost every possible kind.
You don’t want to buy one only for it not to work! Most shower dildos should work for virtually any shower but double-check.
Cost
Your budget is essential as well. Because shower dildos tend to be longer, have hoses, and have unique bells and whistles, they may cost more than your average toy.
But some budget shower dildos exist. So make sure to shop around and find something suitable for you.
Adjustable Water Patterns and Intensities
This feature especially applies if you’re buying a showerhead dildo.
Ordinary shower heads tend to have various water pressure settings and different patterns—for example, mist vs. a powerful jet stream.
Many showerhead dildos also have these features, which is great.
Also Read: Best Dildo Mounts: Suction Cups, Base Holders, Cushions, Stands & More
5 Shower Dildo Options
Now, let’s examine five shower dildos. I’ll focus mainly on hose dildos and shower heads, as other articles cover suction cups and vibrators.
1. Womanizer Shower Head – Best Overall
With shower dildos, I’m gravitating toward products that can double as shower heads. This product is a clitoral stimulator that also doubles as a shower head.
It has three jet settings for different levels of stimulation. Its PowderRain setting is misty and is excellent for showering.
PleasureWhirl can target your clitoris with effective yet light precision.
PleasureJet is for when you want to hit that clitoris hard! You can adjust any of these settings using a slider, which is quite nice.
This shower head should also fit most showers. It doesn’t matter if you have a fancy or cheap apartment shower—either will work.
The shower head is also very lightweight, making it great for travel.
Overall, I had a good time with this one, but it was a little pricey. However, showering is something you do every day, so the investment is worth it!
Pros
- It doubles as a showerhead.
- Different settings and intensities will give you a good time.
- Lightweight and discreet.
Cons
- Pricey.
2. Creature Cocks Spitting Serpent – Best Monster Shower Dildo
Monster dildos have been all the rage recently as women everywhere admit their love for monster fucking.
Hey, I’m not judging. This shower dildo is shaped like a serpent, complete with a scaly texture.
And just like a snake, it can bend, and it’s long. It has 11 insertable inches and 1.5 width, so you can do a lot with this.
Slip the serpent fully inside of you if you’re feeling adventurous or just the head. Also, did I mention it shoots water?
Pros
- Scaly texture.
- Long and bendable.
- Hose attachment will get you wet.
Cons
- Some poor roommate may think there’s a real snake in your shower if you’re not careful!
3. Hosed 12 Inch Slim Silicone Enema Hose Dildo – Best Suction Cup and Hose Combo
Here’s a dildo that has a hose attachment, letting you squirt water deep inside. However, this dildo also includes a suction cup that you can use if you remove the hose.
If you have a small shower, no worries! The dildo is easily bendable so that you can use it in any position.
If I had one complaint about these dildos, however, is that they’re a little too long.
I get having a long one for cleaning purposes and if I’m feeling adventurous, but there doesn’t seem to be a Hosed dildo that’s a little smaller.
Pros
- Suction cup and hose!
- Easily bendable.
- You can get deep in there!
Cons
- It may be a little too long for some people’s tastes.
4. Nexus Shower Douche Duo Anal Kit for Beginners – Best Anal Shower Dildo
These dildos are designed for anal insertion, which is great if you’re trying to clean yourself out or if you’re already clean and you just want a little fun!
You receive a pair of dildos, one straight and one curved, to reach the P-spot, and both work pretty well!
At 4.5 insertable inches and 1.25 width, these dildos are also great for newcomers.
Pros
- They’re great for newbies to anal play.
- Two differently shaped dildos help to mix it up.
- The material is flexible yet firm.
Cons
- More advanced anal users may not get much out of it, which is why there are:
5. Nexus Shower Douche Duo Anal Kit, Advanced – Best Anal Shower Dildo for Experienced Users
Finally, we have this. This pair of dildos is a bit longer than the beginner pair, with six insertable inches.
Also, the dildo shapes are a little more interesting. For example, you get one that is shaped like anal beads, and the other has more of a curve to it.
I also like that the price difference between the beginner and advanced pair isn’t too much, so if the beginner isn’t cutting it, you don’t need to spend that much more.
That being said, the width is about the same. Some people may be okay with that, but others may want something a little girthier.
Pros
- It’s longer than the beginner set.
- Anal bead design is creative.
- Talk about a deep cleaning!
Cons
- The width isn’t any different than the beginner pair.
How To Use a Shower Dildo
You should always read the manual to ensure you’re using these dildos correctly. However, there are some universal rules.
If you’re using a hose dildo, always make sure that both ends are fastened correctly. Most shower dildos should work with most showers, but there are exceptions.
If a shower dildo doesn’t fit, you may want to look for an adapter or a hose that supports your shower.
If you don’t attach the hose properly, water can spray everywhere, which is not what you want.
For suction cups, be sure they are on a smooth, flat surface, and it’s dry. If the dildo has a vibration function, once again, make sure it’s waterproof and charge it before you use it.
How to Clean a Shower Dildo
As long as you have a dildo made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, metal, or glass, it’s easy to clean.
An antibacterial toy cleaner works well, but so can mild soap and warm water. In other words, you can clean it without even leaving the shower.
Once cleaned, let the toy air dry or wipe it down with a cloth. Then, put it in a silk storage bag and store the toy in a cool, dry place.
FAQ
Where To Buy a Dildo for The Shower?
Your local sex shop may have a decent selection of shower toys. Besides that, you can buy sex toys from online retailers.
That said, some online retailers may sell you scam products made from poor-quality materials.
Be sure to shop at reputable online retailers like Lovehoney, Lovense, SheVibe, and Betty’s Toy Box.
How Much Does A Shower Dildo Typically Cost?
The cost depends on the type of dildo and its features. A Suction cup dildo may cost under $20. However, a dildo with more advanced features may cost $50 or even over $100.
For example, Lovense products tend to be on the pricier end. However, they are feature-rich and waterproof, which makes them perfect for the shower.
What Lube Should I Use For a Dildo in the Shower?
To answer this, let’s examine the two main types of lube. Water-based lubes are safe for toys but need to be reapplied frequently, especially in the shower.
Meanwhile, silicone lubes stick much better and need less reapplying, but they can damage silicone toys.
If your toy isn’t silicone-based, use silicone lube. However, if it is silicone, use a hybrid lube. Hybrid combines the safety of water with the lasting power of silicone.
