Last Updated on November 9, 2024 by Kelly
We’ve heard it a million times: bigger isn’t always better. But some like it bigger! Average is just that, average.
For those who want something a little bigger but can’t find it naturally, bigger dildos should satisfy those cravings.
But what bigger dildos are worth getting? Which ones should you avoid? Also, if you want to experiment with more giant dildos, what are some safety tips?
This article will cover everything you’ve always wanted to know about bigger dildos!
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What Are The Benefits of a Big Vibrating Dildo?
A bigger vibrating dildo can come with several benefits, including:
Easier to Control
A smaller vibrator can be brutal for you to control, especially if you have bigger hands.
If you find yourself having trouble holding onto the dildo, then you may want to use something longer.
You may not even like the dildo because you want it all inside of you, and prefer to have something easier to grasp.
This can be a great benefit in the heat of the moment.
It’s More Filling
Some people want a dildo to make them feel full. If someone is used to bigger dicks, or has a naturally wide vagina.
The bigger dildo tends to feel wider as well, helping to satisfy.
Great for Training
Some people have partners who are on the bigger side, and maybe you’re tight.
A larger dildo can be a good way for you to prepare yourself to take it all!
How to Choose a Large Vibrating Dildo
A large, vibrating dildo is a big decision, pun intended. So it’s important to make your decision based on several factors, including:
Materials
What materials do you want the dildo to be made from? Some people will want a dildo that’s made from something solid, such as metal.
These materials can be heated or cooled for extra fun. Of course, being a vibrator, the majority of dildos will be silicone.
Silicone is body-safe, easy to clean, flexible, and firm. In short, it works for most people. Avoid dildos made from jelly, PVC, or other porous materials.
They can harbor bacteria, which can cause infections and diseases. Yuck!
Battery
Since you’re using a vibrating dildo, something has to power it! Nowadays, vibrating dildos come in two types: rechargeable and traditional.
Rechargeable batteries usually use a lithium-ion battery and require USB charging.
They work great if you don’t want to be replacing batteries constantly.
Meanwhile, some dildos may use AA or AAA batteries. Usually, this is because the dildo is cheaper.
You can use rechargeable AA/AAA batteries, so that’s a plus. Not only that, but you can easily replace the battery once it can no longer hold its charge.
Waterproof
Since you’re using a vibrator, there may be times when you want to use the dildo in the bath or shower.
Before you have some aquatic fun, though, I highly recommend you make sure it’s waterproof.
A waterproof dildo usually says it’s submersible or has an IPX rating. Some dildos may be splashproof, meaning you can water them, but don’t dunk them in the bath!
Vibration Settings and Control
Since it’s a vibrating dildo, there will be several patterns and settings you can choose from.
Not only that, but you can control the dildo in many ways.
Some dildos may use a knob at the end. Others will use a remote. Bluetooth dildos may have app control, and allow you to have a more customizable experience.
For example, you can put your favorite song on it and have the dildo vibrate to the beat!
Shape and Size
It’s a big dildo, but how big do you want it? The length, girth, and overall shape are other factors you will want to consider.
For example, some dildos are shaped to stimulate one’s prostate, while others are straighter.
Budget
Finally, how much money do you have to spend on a larger dildo? Since you’re purchasing a big dildo that vibrates, they are naturally more expensive.
Therefore, you may need to sacrifice some features if your budget is small.
7 Best Large Vibrating Dildos: Lengthy, Girthy, and Massive Dildo Vibrators
Now, let’s look at my seven favorite giant dildos.
1. Fun Factory Jewels Big Boss G5 Silicone Waterproof Vibrator – Best Overall
My goal when choosing the best toy was to please a wide audience. This vibrator is the winner. It’s big, but not unbearably big.
The shape and ergonomics of it make the vibrator perfect for most uses. Finally, this dildo is built for long-term use.
The dildo has 6.5 insertable inches and is nearly 2 inches in diameter, making it great for those who like it bigger.
It’s also waterproof, meaning that shower fun is no problem. Its waterproofness and body-safe silicone also make it easy to clean.
There’s also a travel lock, ensuring it won’t go off when you’re at the airport!
The vibrator has a handle you can hold onto, with several buttons to control its speed and vibration patterns.
The loop handle will ensure you hold onto it even if your session gets crazy. The shape is great for your body, and its pronounced head will hit that G-spot just right.
Finally, the vibrator is completely rechargeable. All you need to do is plug it in via USB. The battery life is up to 2 hours, with its life depending on what settings you use.
One downside of this vibrator is that it does take a while to charge. Its charging time is between 6 and 8 hours, so you’ll want to plug it in overnight.
Also, it’s a bit on the pricey side, but I think it’s worth it.
Pros
- Ergonomic handle.
- Completely waterproof.
- A variety of settings.
Cons
- It’s pricey and takes a while to charge.
2. 50 Shades of Grey Greedy Girl – Best Rabbit
Ah, 50 Shades. Some love the books and films; others hate them. But whatever the case, you can’t deny that the toys are great.
A rabbit vibrator works well for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation, and this one packs a punch.
The rabbit has a circumference of 4.75 inches, satisfying most greedy girls, and a respectable insertable length of 5.5 inches.
You can choose between 36 vibration combinations, which should satisfy anyone who loves a good variety.
It’s also submersible; so you can take this rabbit swimming. You won’t have to worry about cleaning it, either. Its silicone materials ensure you can wipe it down and prepare it for next time.
Finally, the battery runs for about an hour and is rechargeable, so getting it going for another round is easy!
Overall, it’s one of the best larger rabbits for a reason.
Pros
- A variety of settings.
- Long and thick.
- Waterproof and rechargeable.
Cons
- Expensive.
3. Lovense Hush 2 Large – Best Butt Plug
What if you want to give your ass some big love? This butt plug by Lovense is one of the best for that. The Lovense Hush 2 is Bluetooth-powered, meaning you can control it through its app.
With the Lovense app, creating your patterns, downloading others, and even making a pattern based on a song you like is easy.
You can create a powerful experience or something a little more subtle. Being a luxury butt plug, it has other bells and whistles, too.
For example, it has a powerful battery that gives you up to two hours of use, and charging is quick and easy.
It’s also IPX7 waterproof, meaning it can go where no bath time experience has.
Finally, the large version of the Hush 2 should fill the hungriest asses.
It has 5 inches insertable length and an insertable width of 2.25 inches, making it great for those experienced in butt play.
Pros
- Large and filling.
- The app allows for quite a bit of customization.
- Fully waterproof.
Cons
- It could be expensive for some.
4. The Velvet Thruster Teddy XL – Best Thrusting Dildo
Dildos can be fantastic fun, but what if you want one that thrusts like a natural person? Meet the Velvet Thruster.
Their XL lineup is a whopping 10 inches long, with six insertable inches. It’s also quite girthy.
Like any good vibrating dildo, this thruster is chock full of different settings. There are six speeds, and you can go up to 128 strokes per minute.
The dildo is also quite flexible, with the shaft bending up to 60 degrees. But it’s also rigid enough to keep its shape if you don’t want it to bend.
The dildo is rechargeable, and it can last up to 2.5 hours, depending on the settings you use.
Unfortunately, it is not waterproof. If you wish to clean it, use a damp, not wet, cloth or a toy cleaner.
Another option that is similar to the Velvet Thruster is the Lovense Gravity. Read my post about the Lovense Gravity here.
Pros
- Great battery life.
- Powerful thrusting.
- It’s big!
Cons
- Not waterproof.
5. The Swan Wand – Best Wand Vibrator
A wand vibrator can double as a way to massage your sore muscles. At least, that’s what you’ll tell someone who finds it!
This vibrator is a whopping 8 inches insertable, with 2 inches of width. Both ends have their own vibration, meaning you can mix it up.
There are seven functions to choose from.
Despite all this power, the battery life is generous. It runs up to 8.5 hours on a single charge, and it only takes four hours to charge it!
Pros
- Long.
- Two motors.
- Great battery life.
Cons
- Pricey.
6. Shane Diesel – Best Realistic Vibrator
Who doesn’t love a realistic cock? This one is based on the porn star Shane Diesel. I don’t know who he is, and I am not sure if he’s related to Vin Diesel, but his penis is nice.
Everything from the bumps to the veins looks real. It’s also 8 inches insertable with a circumference of 7 inches.
That said, this dildo does have flaws. It’s not waterproof, requires AAA batteries, and is made from PVC.
The price tag is a little disappointing, but if you love realism, this can’t be beat!
Pros
- Realistic.
- Long and girthy.
- Many vibrations to choose from.
Cons
- Not rechargeable or waterproof.
- Porous materials.
7. Lovely Planet Strapless Strapon – Best Strapon
Some people want to peg their partner, and that’s awesome. This is one of the best dildos for that.
It needs no harness, as it’s held up by an egg that you insert in yourself, letting you feel pleasure! It’s over six insertable inches, with a thick bulb for the giver.
The dildo is also rechargeable and has a remote setting for your convenience.
Pros
- Strapless strapon fun!
- A variety of settings.
- Rechargeable.
Cons
- A bit pricey.
Huge Vibrator Tips
Before you insert the tip, here are some tips!
It Shouldn’t Hurt!
There’s a bit of a misconception when using big dildos, and that is that pain is normal. That is not the case!
Pain is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong.
You may feel fullness and even sore afterward. But if you’re hurting, you may need more prep, or the dildo may be a little too big.
Do it in a Place That Makes You Feel Comfortable
Be sure that you use your dildo in an area that you feel comfortable using it in.
These dildos can be loud (even the “quiet” ones,) so if you’re afraid of disturbing your roommates, family members, etc., you may want to wait until you feel comfy.
Also Read: 5 Best Black Dildos – Everything You Need to Know
Get in the Mood
You want to feel relaxed and horny. Watch some porn, or play some romantic music. If you’re just not feeling it, your first time with a big dildo may not be that great.
Lots of Lube
You’re using a big dildo, so don’t skip out on the lube. Be sure that the dildo is nicely lubricated.
I have a section below going into the many types of lube you can choose from, so I highly recommend you check that out!
It’s Not for Everyone
Some people are not built for giant dildos or may lack the experience.
If you wanted to use a large dildo because you saw it in a porno, remember that porn isn’t real life.
Don’t force yourself to take something too big for your body. If you can’t take a dildo, be sure to dial it back a little.
When Is A Toy Too Big Or Too Thick?
While I love big dildos, there are some I know I can’t take. Have you ever seen those “novelty” dildos as big as a small statue?
I know I can’t take that.
When buying an enormous dildo, its length and girth are essential. With length, you can always not insert the dildo all the way.
But a too-girthy dildo can be dangerous to get inside you if it’s too big or thick.
How big is too big is a subjective question. Everyone will have their limits, as everyone has different body types and tolerances.
I would recommend trying dildos of various sizes and seeing what your limit is. If you feel like a dildo is too big, don’t force it! Forcing it can lead to severe injuries if you’re not careful!
What Are The Best Big Vibrating Dildos For Beginners?
This article has seven you can choose from, and they’re all great for beginners and veterans alike.
But if I had to pick one, the 50 Shades of Grey Greedy Girl is the best for beginners.
It’s not too expensive, and its width and length are fine.
A rabbit vibrator is a general crowd-pleaser as well since it stimulates your clit, too. The first one on the list, the Big Boss, also works significantly for newbies.
How to Use a Large Vibrating Dildo
Using a vibrating dildo is relatively easy! First, open the packaging and read the manual to see if you should be aware of anything.
Since it’s a vibrating dildo, you should give it a charge or put the batteries in.
Rechargeable dildos may not come fully charged, and the last thing I want is for you to experience disappointment!
With an enormous dildo or any dildo, you’ll want to set the mood. The last thing you want is not to be feeling it.
Make sure your first experience is one where you feel like taking something big. Also, set the mood!
Keep the lights dimmed, play some music to get you hot and horny, throw some rose petals around, or do whatever it takes. It sounds corny, but it helps!
Most people will not want to take the dildo the first thing, so open yourself up a little. Use your fingers with a bit of lube and get a rhythm going.
Or, use a smaller dildo! There’s nothing wrong with working yourself up!
When you use a larger dildo, listen to your body. Start slow, and don’t insert it all the way just yet. Go easy. You may feel full, and you may feel sore in the morning.
But you shouldn’t be in pain. If you’re hurting too much, you may need more preparation.
Or the dildo may be too big for you.
How To Clean Large Vibrating Dildos
Cleaning a large dildo is about the same as a normal-sized one. If the dildo is made from non-porous materials, such as silicone, metal, or wood, it’s pretty easy to clean.
Use mild soap and warm water, then let it air dry.
Once it’s dried, put the dildo in a silk bag and keep it in a cool, dry place.
You can also use a foaming toy cleaner, which should send that bacteria bye-bye! If you’re living by yourself, some dildos are dishwasher-safe.
If the dildo is made from porous materials, you may need to give the dildo a more complex cleaning. I’d highly recommend that you avoid porous dildos.
Just the idea of using one of them makes me cringe a little!
Where To Buy A Sizeable Vibrating Dildo?
Giant dildos should be available at most sex shops or online retailers. Both have their advantages and disadvantages.
Brick-and-mortar locations have the benefit of you getting the toy now and avoiding any shipping fees.
With that said, the selection may not be as good. You may also feel embarrassed at someone you know seeing you in the shop.
Personally, I don’t care if someone sees me shopping, but I understand why.
Online retailers can offer a more extensive variety and more deals and discounts. Usually, a brick-and-mortar location will have a clearance aisle, but that’s about it.
Of course, you have to deal with shipping fees. However, many online retailers will offer free shipping if you spend a certain amount.
Most online retailers also usually use discreet packaging when shipping. However, if you live with a peeker, grab that box ASAP when it arrives!
Are Giant Vibrating Dildos Safe?
Giant dildos are generally safe if you buy from a reputable retailer and the materials are body-safe.
Of course, you may be wondering if the dildo is safe enough to insert inside of you without damaging it.
The answer is that it depends on your body! Everyone is different, and everyone has different tolerances for big dildos.
But no matter how much you insert inside of you, you shouldn’t feel pain. If you’re hurting, you may need to prepare yourself with a smaller dildo or get something smaller.
What Lube Should I Use With A Large Vibrating Dildo?
If you’re going to purchase an enormous dildo, you better come prepared with plenty of lube!
Don’t overestimate your natural juices!
You can choose from several lubes, each with advantages and disadvantages. Let’s look at some of them.
Water
Water-based lubes work well with any type of dildo, whether it’s silicone, metal, wood, etc.
Water-based lubricants make the dildo slick and do not damage it. That said, they must be reapplied often, which can be a bit of a hassle.
Silicone
Silicone-based lubes are popular because you don’t need to reapply the lubricant as often. Once you put it on the dildo, it should last for a good while!
But silicone-based dildos have disadvantages as well. The main one is that this lube can damage silicone toys.
So, I’d recommend using silicone lube for non-silicone dildos.
Hybrid
Hybrid lubes consist of both water and silicone. You won’t need to reapply the lube as often if you’re using hybrid over water, but you’ll still have to reapply it more than using pure silicone.
But hybrid lubes will not hurt your silicone toys, so they’re the best of both worlds!
